Day 21- Finding True Love

Good Morning!
Hope everyone is having an amazing day already. 

 Today is the 3 week mark of my journey, and I am so grateful to be at this point.
Patting myself on the back...

I don't think Ive ever been so disciplined in anything that had to do with my creative side. 

 This is not the first time I have started a blog... See my old blog site...

 I dumped it then, because I felt discouraged, and I didn't get the sort of reception I expected it to have.

That is why I am glad I am using this 30 day positivity challenge as a way to open up my creative side to the world, and as a channel for love and joy in my life.
This challenge has not only built my confidence, it has also made me resilient and very determined to succeed creatively. 

 Doing the things I love the most, like writing, I believe has made me more receptive to love in my life...

 When I was much younger and so naive, I was so anxious to be loved by everyone I met, but the reality was that, it is nearly impossible realistically. 

As I grew older, I turned into a hard shell and only sought out love from those I loved. I wanted to prevent myself from getting hurt...
But even that did not work....

I have been through some very significant relationships, and every single one has taught me a valuable lesson about who I am.

 I have always been seeking the perfect partner, one who would love me for who I am, cherish me and never leave me...

 I even had a checklist for my soulmate....

Lol, basic stuff..

The people I attracted into my life then, were those I thought I would end up having a deep connection with for the rest of my life...

 And after a broken engagement last year, it was the final straw!

 I had to get to the bottom as to why everything never worked out the way I wanted it to.

 I had written down all the criteria I wanted for marriage material, but never asked myself if I was even marriage material!

 Was I even worthy of true love and a perfect soulmate?

 It was then I realized that there was no way I could find my soulmate, without loving myself inside and out.

 The more I had let my relationship problems and self esteem issues get buried or repressed within my mind, the more anxious and negative I was in real life....

 And I didn't know that this attitude was the reason why my love life was in shambles.

 I have come to the conclusion that to find my life partner, I have to sort out my physical, mental and spiritual issues first.

 This is still an ongoing process, but as the days go by, I have noticed that I have attracted more love into my life in general...


I now love my body... In sickness and in health... Flaws and all.....

 I now love my mind.... How a perfect mix of rationality and irrationality has made me brilliant...

 I now love my spirit.... The essence of morality and divine purpose.


 I now love my life, the people in it and the world in general.

 I love God and I am so glad he saved me and finally showed me the way!

 Here are 5 easy steps to attracting and finding true love:

 1. Love yourself: This is the most important step in which all others are dependent on. You have to love yourself to the point where you do not need anybody else in this world except you! Accept who you are flaws and all, be less critical/judgmental about your past mistakes and move on from the old to the new. Find yourself and what your true purpose in life is! Reinvent who you are... Change for the better!


2. Know your worth: Everybody is capable of finding true love and being loved, including you! If you believe you deserve love, you will attract more love in your life be it a loving partner, family, friends and even the world! 


3. Share your love: Open your heart up to the world! The more love you give, is the more you receive. Reach out to people, show your genuine love and care towards them. Not only will you make someones day a little bit brighter, you will also feel great about yourself too.

4. Do the things you love: The more you are in a state of true happiness and love, the more you attract that in your life. It could be a hobby like writing, art, music, sports, etc... These activities are crucial for balance and joy in one's life. 


5. Surround yourself with the things you love: Being around positive/loving people or things that you love/very sentimental to you will bring a lot of love into your life. It could be through redecorating your house, having a pet, being around loved ones and visiting places you love.


The more we fix our inside world, the more it reflects in reality...
These tips are simple and the most effective way of finding true love.

 Not only will it transform your life, you will attract whatever person you want because of how positive and loving you are. 
Who wouldn't want to be around that sort of person 24/7?
I know I would!

 Have a loving day and remember to always show love to others even when they don't deserve it or give it back in return. 
Peace... Love... Harmony...




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